"ANGEL"

"FLOAT ON"

I Can Do Bad All By Myself- we know how the ole adage goes and okay, we probably can and do. But do we really want to in the big scheme of things.
In a perfect world? yes, in the real world? no. Here’s where it gets tricky, it depends if you’re a settler or a dweller…Settlers settle for less than what they deserve, and dwellers just got to have someone in their life for the sake of being in a relationship. Believe it or not the percentage is high for both..Unfortunately, there are people that just can’t be alone no matter what, and well that’s just a topic for a later date.

"OPEN TO CHANGE"

Be open to change. Change is inevitable in life, and it will happen whether you go with it or fight it. Flexibility is essential to adapt to the change that is always taking place in any relationship, and it allows you to grow together through both the good times and the bad.

"YOU AND I"

Don’t take out your problems on your partner. Life stresses can make us short tempered. If you are coping with a lot of stress, it might seem easier to vent with your partner, and even feel safer to snap at him or her. Fighting like this might initially feel like a release, but it slowly poisons your relationship. Find other ways to vent your anger and frustration.

"BE A WINNER"

If you approach your partner with the attitude that things have to be your way or else, it will be difficult to reach a compromise. Sometimes this attitude comes from not having your needs met while younger, or it could be years of accumulated resentment in the relationship reaching a boiling point. It’s alright to have strong convictions about something, but your partner deserves to be heard as well. You are more likely to get your needs met if you respect what your partner needs, and compromise when you can.